Signed up to the Facebook group. Don't really like FB but you can't get away from the fact everyone uses it! Bit like Windows-XP really...
RE: People that don't want to be found
I can understand this. It's why I signed up with Bobuido Arnold Dave (not my real name) That way you find who you want to find whilst avoiding everyone else. Providing your friend / network list doesn't give you away, no-one should find you
BTW
It tries to force you to sign up with a "real name" hence why I had to append "Arnold Dave" to my alias